In this episode of The Cool Grandpa Podcast, I sit down again with author and creative thinker Don Akchin to talk about his new book, After Work: An Honest Discussion About What Comes Next.
Don challenges the old idea of retirement as “the end” and redefines it as the beginning of a new and vibrant stage of life. Together, we explore how today’s retirees—especially men—can rediscover purpose, creativity, and connection after their careers wind down.
In this conversation, you’ll hear insights from Don about:
- Why the old version of retirement no longer fits today’s longer, healthier lives
- The “fragile decade” — the five years before and after leaving work
- Rediscovering passions left behind for career and family
- Volunteering, mentoring, and giving back through experience
- Finding new social connections and combating isolation
- The rise of retirement coaches and the emotional side of retirement planning
- How creativity, curiosity, and flexibility lead to fulfillment in later years
Don also shares his personal story of rediscovering his creative spark through writing—and how After Work came to life.
This is a thoughtful, funny, and deeply encouraging episode for anyone approaching or already living their “after-work” life.
Takeaways:
Retirement is not the end, but a new beginning.
Many struggle with identity after leaving their careers.
It’s important to explore new passions and hobbies post-retirement.
Planning for retirement should include emotional and psychological aspects.
Creativity can flourish in later life if nurtured.
Volunteering provides a sense of purpose and community.
Legacy is about the example we set for future generations.
Finding purpose is crucial for a fulfilling after-work life.
Social connections are vital for health and longevity.
Lifelong learning keeps the mind engaged and curious.
Links:
🌐 DonAkchin.com — Learn more about Don’s work, his Substack The End Game, and his book After Work.
You can use this link to listen to Don’s first appearance on the podcast. His episode is called “The Evolving Role of Grandfathers.“
You can also watch this conversation on YouTube by clicking HERE.
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