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In this inspiring episode, I visit with Cynthia and Kameron Haller to explore what it truly means to live a life of purpose—especially in the later years.
With 6 children and nearly 28 grandchildren, the Hallers made a bold decision: step away from family for 18 months to serve a mission in Northern Ireland. What they discovered wasn’t just about service; it was about rediscovering identity, expanding influence, and living with intention.
What You’ll Hear in This Episode:
The Decision to Serve
- Why did they choose to leave family behind to serve
- The role of faith, purpose, and legacy in that decision
- How “living in crescendo” shaped their mindset
What Is “Living in Crescendo”?
- The idea that your most important work is always ahead of you
- The contrast between crescendo vs. diminuendo living
- Why purpose, and not retirement, is the key to fulfillment
Service in Action
- Supporting local communities and young missionaries
- Building relationships across cultures (including a Filipino community in Ireland)
- Helping integrate a Romanian couple into a new life
Unexpected Impact
- Starting a pickleball movement in Northern Ireland
- Volunteering in charity shops alongside other faith communities
- Creating meaningful connections beyond religion
Influence on Family
- How their example inspired a granddaughter to serve
- Strengthening relationships through intentional communication
- The power of showing vs. telling
Simple Ways to Serve
- Why small acts matter more than you think
- Stories of impact, from knitting slippers to donating a single can of soup
- How to match your strengths with real needs
KEY TAKEAWAYS:
- Your purpose doesn’t end when your career does
- Service is one of the fastest ways to find joy and meaning
- Influence grows when you step outside your comfort zone
- Grandchildren learn more from what you do than what you say
- Small, consistent acts of kindness create lasting impact
ACTION ITEMS FOR LISTENERS:
- Identify one cause you care about and take a small step this week
- Ask yourself: Am I living in crescendo or diminuendo?
- Reach out to a local organization and ask about their needs
- Start a simple act of service (weekly giving, mentoring, helping a neighbor)
- Share your values through action, not just words
Links:
You can use this link to listen to my first conversation with Cynthia about the book she wrote with her father, Steven Covey: https://cool-grandpa.us/2024/03/08/ep-172-live-life-in-crescendo/
You can watch this conversation with Cynthia and Kameraon on YouTube by using this link: https://youtu.be/u99jN2Tpd9o
Here is the link for you to purchase your own copy of one of the best books written about living a larger life, Live Life in Crescendo: https://www.amazon.com/Live-Life-Crescendo-Important-Always/dp/B09TX18ZWG/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1MH0W27J6LI0B&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.UNPkNprdvWYjFSHTAoc3Gt2m1S8J7wE0c32Qbr2IdrhLjpBnv10hKDEyFiiylhUUFIyuBlN-q_BOzBDIaMWSLQKq0TW4WLFIA3DIhDNVaV4.qLStzdIy7wFazJjiH3lpDqWKUyaJCI49gDb2pfTuonM&dib_tag=se&keywords=live+life+in+crescendo+book&qid=1776906746&sprefix=live+life+in+crescendo+%2Caps%2C292&sr=8-1
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